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Attitude Ups the Ante on your ratings with Women
By Mike Pilinski
For a man, successfully meeting women is all about how you ACT. Period.
Sure, you have to look halfway decent in the way you dress, stay groomed and not stink like a chunk of two month old polish sausage… but the make-or-break factor is and always will be the WORDS that come out of your mouth, and the ATTITUDE that underlies it.
With that in mind, here’s seven points to load into your mental backpack when you’re getting ready to go off to battle (which is to say, every day of your life…)
Remain Focused on the Game
— The art of attracting women is all about knowing how to engage them with a natural curiosity that shows you are at least a little bit interested in *their* world (WARNING: too much = a slick phony, so be careful).
Tune out the surrounding world and focus in on her as if you were the only two people in the universe. If done properly (without any subservient whimpering), this kind of attention is flattering to her in an almost breathtakingly way.
Above all else, act like you’re familiar with this whole process. Seduction always begins as a low pressure event. Place her at ease with your laid back demeanor, and let her slowly begin to feed off of it. Be a lighthearted flirt. Don’t be obvious — keep your interest vague so as to give everyone an “out” to protect all egos involved (both yours and hers). She will appreciate your tactful approach immensely, and be impressed with your consideration and charm.
Demonstrate Charisma (Likeability)
Sometime during the course of the evening, offer a single simple compliment about something unique to her style and presentation about herself. No canned “You have such beautiful eyes…” compliments.
Make compliments seem casual and unplanned (a sudden pleasant thought that just popped into your head and slipped out before you could stop it…), then IMMEDIATELY move on to other topics. Trust me, she heard it.
Touch Her to Seduce Her
Use any excuse you can dream up to get a hand on her. Of course I mean only in the appropriate places… an arm, shoulder, a hair brushback. Do not grope her like a desperate fool. Touch is extremely important because it demonstrates a sexual, “manly” interest in her and keeps you away from the deadly “nice-guy-friend” category. Just make sure you always keep it classy.
Risk Taking Is a Turn-On
Take a chance… a bold comment, break the speed limit, whatever… Stay unpredictable and keep her a little off balance. Men are powerful and at ease with themselves, right?
Nurture the Trance of Romance
Take her out to see a mushy chick flick by surprise… make a dinner and light a silly candle on a “spontaneous” whim (nothing is spontaneous to a real Seducer…).
Do the things that trigger those romantic thoughts and dreams that attract women naturally by pulling up all their fuzziest memories. You’ll score major points for creativity!
Make her Laugh
Assume that she likes you and will respond favorably to your charm, but never assume you have a green light to start telling fart jokes or break into your full blown comedy club routine. Humor is all about the CLEVER observation of the absurdities of everyday life — not the repeating of dumb jokes you read in Hustler or doing your lame celebrity impressions. So there you have it. Try a few of these attitude adjustments for yourself — maybe just as an experiment if you can’t face the idea of actually changing anything permanently about yourself.
Mike Pilinski is the author of 2 classic e-books in the Men’s Dating Market… his highly-acclaimed original, “Without Embarrassment” and his follow-up work: “She’s Yours For The Taking”. Each are a masterful education for all guys in the fine art of meeting, dating and seducing women.